Keeping a mental track record of someones flaws is ungodly and poisons the relationship. 1 Corinthians 13:1-5.

There’s no godly workaround replacement for parent’s actively mentoring and leading their children. Deuteronomy 6:6-9.

Encouragement is an investment into the future. Deuteronomy 1:19-40. Acts 9:31. Hebrews 10:25.